How to stop comparing

Have you ever found yourself stuck in the comparison trap. Looking at someone else’s like and had the thought “why can’t my life look like that?”

We’ve all been there, thoughts of comparison and insecurity can sneak in so quickly. Especially with social media and societal pressure. The pressure to always look perfect, have the perfect marriage, the perfect home and career. In the weight of that pressure we can forget that we all were made with a unique purpose. 1 Corinthians 12:4 says, “now there are different gifts, but the same Spirit.”We were not all made to be the same, but to use our special gifts and talents for the glory of God.

Instead of letting comparison steal your joy, try this:

• Thank God for what you have. Gratitude helps us see the beauty in our own lives.

• Celebrate others. Her win doesn’t mean you’ve lost. There’s room for all of us in God’s Kingdom.

• Stay close to Jesus. When you keep your eyes on Him, you’ll feel more peace and less pressure.

A Simple Prayer

Dear Lord, please forgive me and help me to stop comparing myself to others and be grateful for the way you made me. Help me use my special gifts and talents that you have given me, to glorify you. Give me wisdom in rejoicing with others and focus on serving you. In Jesus we pray name amen.